Post by kiwi on Oct 11, 2004 23:19:44 GMT 1
Little cutie Jack Rusell.....rehomed a few months ago.
Homed with an intense and confrontational fear of men....and a rehab programme. During 4 months adopters came back to rescue and had two more refresher courses and stricter instruction!!!
Lady must stop smother loving dog!!!
Perpetuating female bias.....encouraging lack of respect for husband.........which husband confirmed!!!
Husband told to take over lots of the care until dog more balanced with them both....and women should stop smother loving!!!
But, we predited on the second refresher (original rehoming and first refresher women showed incapacity to grasp much) that dog will be back....as women cant or wont follow advice.
Also during the adoption, dog came in overnight for spaying.
On this occasion i kennelled dog and gave dog back next day....but dog was very nervous aggressive and lunged and ankle bit me quite enthusiastically!!!!
Didnt want to know me AT ALL.
However, now since dog has been returned this week, i have had no association whatsoever........no handling, feeding, fussing, training, talking.
My other male colleague has been doing it all week.
He gets her out during our tea break...i say fleeting hello to her............walk off for 20 mins.....come back........and my colleague tells me that all she did was blank him and obsess over my abscence.
While i'm sitting next to him listening this and still ignoring dog,
she forces her way from him and onto my lap, and was all over me!!!!!!!!!
Now she's totally obsessed with me.
Hence bunny boiler............i expect and understand this when its one of my own 'rehab bonded dogs', but this one's stumped me!!
Anyone else had this experience?
Any explanations?
kiwi
Homed with an intense and confrontational fear of men....and a rehab programme. During 4 months adopters came back to rescue and had two more refresher courses and stricter instruction!!!
Lady must stop smother loving dog!!!
Perpetuating female bias.....encouraging lack of respect for husband.........which husband confirmed!!!
Husband told to take over lots of the care until dog more balanced with them both....and women should stop smother loving!!!
But, we predited on the second refresher (original rehoming and first refresher women showed incapacity to grasp much) that dog will be back....as women cant or wont follow advice.
Also during the adoption, dog came in overnight for spaying.
On this occasion i kennelled dog and gave dog back next day....but dog was very nervous aggressive and lunged and ankle bit me quite enthusiastically!!!!
Didnt want to know me AT ALL.
However, now since dog has been returned this week, i have had no association whatsoever........no handling, feeding, fussing, training, talking.
My other male colleague has been doing it all week.
He gets her out during our tea break...i say fleeting hello to her............walk off for 20 mins.....come back........and my colleague tells me that all she did was blank him and obsess over my abscence.
While i'm sitting next to him listening this and still ignoring dog,
she forces her way from him and onto my lap, and was all over me!!!!!!!!!
Now she's totally obsessed with me.
Hence bunny boiler............i expect and understand this when its one of my own 'rehab bonded dogs', but this one's stumped me!!
Anyone else had this experience?
Any explanations?
kiwi